Comments on: Is “Ghosting” the New Post-It Note? https://www.alittlenudge.com/2014/11/is-ghosting-the-new-post-it-note/ Mon, 12 Oct 2015 23:10:44 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.2 By: Dating Atonements for the High Holidays - JLife https://www.alittlenudge.com/2014/11/is-ghosting-the-new-post-it-note/#comment-158837 Mon, 12 Oct 2015 23:10:44 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=702#comment-158837 […] for you (but the other person has expressed interest), dropping off the face of the earth (or “ghosting,” as the kids are calling it), is not […]

]]> By: Erika https://www.alittlenudge.com/2014/11/is-ghosting-the-new-post-it-note/#comment-122269 Tue, 13 Jan 2015 17:05:30 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=702#comment-122269 In reply to m.

Couldn’t agree more.

]]> By: m https://www.alittlenudge.com/2014/11/is-ghosting-the-new-post-it-note/#comment-121910 Mon, 12 Jan 2015 19:53:50 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=702#comment-121910 It’s nice to see someone in, let’s say, a position of authority to comment on the matter agrees with this

“While someone might get it, he or she does not deserve it. People are not things.”

I’ve said the same, near-verbatim, and I get a … lot of pushback on that in person and in acquaintance (I’m a bit loathe to call people who espouse this POV “friends”) of the “That’s just the way it is” and “You just need to be ‘tough enough’ to get over it quickly” variety. We’re humans, with feelings … not androids.

Thank you.

🙂

]]> By: GiGi https://www.alittlenudge.com/2014/11/is-ghosting-the-new-post-it-note/#comment-96260 Thu, 04 Dec 2014 15:42:02 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=702#comment-96260 Im new to the internet dating. a recent widow and in my dating years ; a phone call , an interest and then some dates to judge if we had amicable interests and desire to be with one another and forge on.. There was never a question if he was real …

im finding that as i begin on line. people ( many males are not honest ) they change photos and or steal them from another post and what they right is of no meaning to the reader: meaning the ones who are immediately want to have me give them my email and or Im them and if i dont. they disappear like sawdust on a carpenters bench. Ive always tried to be open and honest as i was to my spouse and now im finding in this brand new world of dating. what happened to those men of my era who practiced this form of communication and is days of long gone?

is there any other way to know when we begin writing on line , how to figure out if he is a Real person or an imposter

Gigi

]]> By: Gary https://www.alittlenudge.com/2014/11/is-ghosting-the-new-post-it-note/#comment-78724 Fri, 07 Nov 2014 18:01:33 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=702#comment-78724 I have seen both genders do this and think this is great advice.

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