Comments on: Texting and Dating: How Much Is Too Much?

By: Pete

Pete — Sun, 17 Sep 2023 07:05:09 +0000

Texting is good but if you really want to meet the person, you have to make an effort. It's a red flag if the other person just keeps texting you without making an extra effort in meeting you personally. -Pete (Dating Coach)

By: clement

clement — Sat, 30 Dec 2017 18:18:01 +0000

i love texing too much

By: Paul Lane

Paul Lane — Wed, 23 Dec 2015 17:12:09 +0000

I got dumped by my girl for a guy who would sext her, I wanted real sex in person not fantasy sex throught texts, a real relationship!

Text only relationships are not real in any way, they are you projecting your own image of perfection on a guy who will not take the time to make plans to be with you, but sometimes a woman will stop a guy from making time for them too. They like the fantasy more than the real man, they want perfection not the real man who is imperfect. When a guy tries to make a date she is quick to put a stop to it, by saying I want the way my life is even though they are very lonely. They want the control over their lives.

Women need to watch out for the mimic guys who perfectly like everything you like, act the same way you act, and is always available to you when you have time for a man. This type of man texts you all day long, and is quick to get you to fall in love with them in 60 days. You need to at least make it to the 90 day mark before giving your heart, because anyone can fake it for that long if they are real good. But over 90 days they start to lose track of everything they have said and the cracks in their armor start to show.

Remember all men and women have flaws if you have not seen any then you have not seen the real person that they are, so watch out for the mimics out there in the world. And if they ask you to marry them in the first 90 days run don’t think about it just run for your life. If they propose in text, voice chat, over the phone, or in an email you have a wack job on your hands, he or she might not have a place to lay there head at night. It still winter it’s cold outside.

By: anonypenguin

anonypenguin — Wed, 01 Apr 2015 05:54:51 +0000

Yes
I believe, Texting anything other than logistics will drastically increase the probability of her flaking (cancelling)
If you are not txting her, it means you are busy with friends at a party for race-car drivers and super-models.

By: Erika

Erika — Mon, 16 Mar 2015 21:58:06 +0000

In reply to Bill Sherman. Thanks for the comment, Bill!

By: Bill Sherman

Bill Sherman — Mon, 16 Mar 2015 13:55:33 +0000

I love texting after a date or two, once a face-to-face interest has been established. I enjoy sending affectionate, silly, funny and sexy texts with someone I’m interested in, and it can also be a great medium for exploring sensitive topics. Within reason of course. If someone’s texting me all the time, it’s annoying. But my main dating rule is that everything starts (or ends) with the in-person meeting; pretty much anything before that meeting is meaningless or a waste of time.