Comments on: 8 Things NOT To Do On a First Date https://www.alittlenudge.com/2018/08/8-things-not-to-do-on-a-first-date/ Fri, 04 Sep 2020 19:32:09 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.2 By: Erika https://www.alittlenudge.com/2018/08/8-things-not-to-do-on-a-first-date/#comment-204901 Fri, 04 Sep 2020 19:32:09 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=1496#comment-204901 In reply to Austin.

Good for you for getting out there for the first time! That’s not a small feat. It sounds like perhaps this just wasn’t a match. I always recommend keeping things light on a first date — talking about hobbies, trips, activities, etc. That way you know if there’s some rapport. Don’t delve into serious things like relationships, health issues, family stuff, etc. Awkward happens sometimes, and that’s okay.

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By: Austin https://www.alittlenudge.com/2018/08/8-things-not-to-do-on-a-first-date/#comment-204898 Fri, 04 Sep 2020 16:38:07 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=1496#comment-204898 Hi Erika, I’m 26 and I went on my very first date yesterday. It was really awkward and uncomfortable. It felt more like a job interview than a proper date. The conversation didn’t flow very naturally even though I asked questions and shared personal anecdotes with my date. We ended up jumping from topic to topic for less than an hour before we decided to end the date.

Do you have any tips for how to have a more natural conversation with somebody I don’t know very well?

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