Comments on: A Tweak or Rewrite Can Make All the Difference https://www.alittlenudge.com/2019/07/a-tweak-or-rewrite-can-make-all-the-difference/ Wed, 31 Jul 2019 22:23:33 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.2 By: KL https://www.alittlenudge.com/2019/07/a-tweak-or-rewrite-can-make-all-the-difference/#comment-199047 Wed, 31 Jul 2019 22:23:33 +0000 https://www.alittlenudge.com/?p=1738#comment-199047 The original profiles were written by divorcees and mothers who know what men want – fun, warmth, love, optimism, joy, and laughter. A word cloud for the three original profiles said “Hi good looking” and “Looking good, athletic family man”. Dating author/wife/mother Amy Webb would approve.

The revised profiles make the women seem full of themselves and their inflexible “This is me personalities”. Men don’t want a difficult “toughie” who “sticks to her guns” and “settles for nothing”. Men do not feeling like earning “bonus points” of approval from a haughty stranger. The word cloud for the revised profiles says “just friends”.

Translation: “a former business owner who loves to volunteer” = “I brag about living off my ex-husbands money.”
“passion for both civil rights and Middle East relations” = “a rabid Zionist or Palestinian terrorist”. And we haven’t even gotten appetizers.

Women want a strong man who can earn a house on a golf course. Men seek a flexible, accommodating partner, not a challenging “scream”. If her pictures are good, and she has any sort of bait, then we will send a message.

What were the results of alpha/beta testing?

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